There are just some men out there who are really good at saying and doing the right things to make you fall really deep in love with them. They might just see you as someone they can have some occasional fun with. They might consider you to be one of their many options when it comes to romantic entanglements. And it doesn’t really matter how much you love him or how attached you have become to him. If he treats you like this, then you shouldn’t ever be with him.
Remember that dignity and self-respect is always going to be important. How can you ever expect other people to respect you if you don’t respect yourself? You need to make it a point to demand proper treatment from the people around you – especially those who you are in romantic relationships with. You never want to find yourself in the position of dating a guy who is only going to play around with you and make you feel as if you’re just a temporary pastime.
Love is so much more than that. Love is something that you build for life. Love knows no games or lies. Love shouldn’t be about deceit and deception. Love should always be about honesty, openness, authenticity, realness, and sincerity. And if he can’t be all of those things to you, then he’s not the guy you’re meant to be with. He’s not a guy who’s in love with you.